I don’t give a fuck if you hurt my feelings, just do it. To be honest, I’ll be even more hurt if you don’t tell me since you think that I can’t handle the truth in the first place. I don’t want you to sugarcoat every little detail and make me read between the lines. I have too many people like that in my life already and I hate it. Even if I don’t listen to you, I still want to know what’s up. Be real with me, I’ll get over it.
MARY! This is exactly what we were talking about today!
I’m not really the type of guy that’ll compliment a random female by telling her she’s “cute” or “beautiful” or “omg sexy.” I don’t believe in just telling a girl everything she wants to hear. In my books I believe that if I’m really interested in someone, I’ll go to further extents to make them feel beautiful & special. If you notice, most girls that receive “OMG you’re cute!” comments, don’t even put that much attention to their responses. It’s a nice gesture to give someone don’t get me wrong, but at this point in my life I feel I’m fully capable of so much more than just letting a girl hear something she might get 10 times in a given day. Those complimenting words are still in my vocabulary nonetheless, but if I wanna give them play time I make them personal. I might use “beautiful”.. to describe the moment I see her for the first time that night & the glow she has just by standing there in front of me. I might use “cute”.. to describe the way her laugh is so spontaneously goofy that it lifts my soul with the warmest smile. And I might even use “sexy”.. not to describe any sort of physical feature she possesses, but only to acquaint her to the way her ambitious personality turns me on in ways a perfect body or hair could never do. But that’s just me.